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The Time when we felt proud of ourself

 Every person on this earth has good as well as bad memories. There are memories of making new friends, getting A's in test, getting a job offer, accomplishing a task, getting a promotion and many more. But all these are very unique to every individual. For some making new friends is the best memory and they always cherish it, but for some geeting A's in test is the biggest moment of their life. While there are some bad memories that have made their house in our brain. The memories of losing someone, the memories of losing a job that was the only way to earn a livelihood. There are some whose worst nightmare is to get F in a test. While there are some who have memories of being dragged away from their dreams that they had when they were young. 

The most we remember are the bad ones, the more we are going to make ourselves gulity of not taking the right action at right moment, but the thing is we don't know when is the right moment or when is the time to act right. So there are always lessons that we can take from bad memories instead of thinking about them again and agian. 

This is the time to think about the some of the good memories which made us proud. Thinking about them today again make us proud. There are many good one but the only few come sin the category where we can feel proud of them.

In my life I also had many good times where I felt proud of myself. the first when I felt proud of myself when I was in my 1st year of graduation, I really wanted to appear for one exam and clear it in first attempt and I did it in very first go.

The second time when I was most proud of myself when my instructor told our flight (a group of air force cadets in NCC in India) that how I developed over time from being very shy to confident cadet and who can play the role of a leader. It was the proudest moment for me.

The third time when I was most proud when I was one of the participant in quiz team and we had this rapid fire round where team has to answer as many questions in 45 seconds. I was on fire that time. I knew the answers and I do not even have to think twice before answering.

I hope life will show me much more such proud moments ahead. 

I believe the one who is reading this blog must have some of the proud moments in life too. Share yours in the comment section below.

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